We all have a variety of ideas about what we want from a relationship. What we’ve told ourselves we need from a partner. The timing of commitment. When to move in, when to marry, and when to have kids. How much sex do we want? And how do we factor our age into all of these goals? Many of us put a timeline on these milestones and carefully weigh our age against our current relationship’s progression. But out of all of this, what matters? Is it all important? Is it just cultural BS we’ve internalized? Is it our childhood trauma unconsciously expressed as a “need” or want? Or is it reasonable? And if it is reasonable, is it even realistic?
Seriously though, what even matters?
Seriously though, what even matters?
Seriously though, what even matters?
We all have a variety of ideas about what we want from a relationship. What we’ve told ourselves we need from a partner. The timing of commitment. When to move in, when to marry, and when to have kids. How much sex do we want? And how do we factor our age into all of these goals? Many of us put a timeline on these milestones and carefully weigh our age against our current relationship’s progression. But out of all of this, what matters? Is it all important? Is it just cultural BS we’ve internalized? Is it our childhood trauma unconsciously expressed as a “need” or want? Or is it reasonable? And if it is reasonable, is it even realistic?