This is very wise! I will certainly implement this going forward. Go slow while trying to stay very much in the moment, letting go of expectations and ignoring projections. I can see a real challenge tho, as others will likely jump right back into their fast food dating and keep swiping, looking for the spark with all the endless options out there. Also, I feel like men often seek sex (fine, but be HONEST) but kind of fake this "getting to know you" phase. So it's disappointing........ all the more reason to proceed with caution before trusting our projections.
This is very wise! I will certainly implement this going forward. Go slow while trying to stay very much in the moment, letting go of expectations and ignoring projections. I can see a real challenge tho, as others will likely jump right back into their fast food dating and keep swiping, looking for the spark with all the endless options out there. Also, I feel like men often seek sex (fine, but be HONEST) but kind of fake this "getting to know you" phase. So it's disappointing........ all the more reason to proceed with caution before trusting our projections.
I haven’t met anyone in more than a decade that ‘sparked’ with me. I’ll keep this in mind if I ever need this information.