I'm starting to question is romantic love is nothing more than early feels, unresolved trauma, hormones, wanting what you can't have, addictions, projections, manipulations and fantasies. All wrapped in a unsustainable package that cannot possibly merge mystery and intimacy. Especially long term. Is this just a best friend you like f*ck? and struggle to maintain? Thoughts from a former hopeless romantic lol. Wondering if we should all just be focusing on building friendships and self love instead. Hoping I am wrong 🖤
I'm starting to question is romantic love is nothing more than early feels, unresolved trauma, hormones, wanting what you can't have, addictions, projections, manipulations and fantasies. All wrapped in a unsustainable package that cannot possibly merge mystery and intimacy. Especially long term. Is this just a best friend you like f*ck? and struggle to maintain? Thoughts from a former hopeless romantic lol. Wondering if we should all just be focusing on building friendships and self love instead. Hoping I am wrong 🖤