It's also a time that reminds you of those who have died or are no longer present in your life and then there is the financial stuff. But I love the music (mostly) and the lights. But celebrations are better with more than one.
I concur with everything u said. Roll in Jan 2nd for me too. A catastrophic event ended my relationship with family too, tho it was always tenuous, them in bully sh mood when they felt like it, me ducking their shots, complying, passively. Mine was over a brother's Will..they refused give me my share, then told lies about me stealing from that brother..all totally untrue.
It's also a time that reminds you of those who have died or are no longer present in your life and then there is the financial stuff. But I love the music (mostly) and the lights. But celebrations are better with more than one.
I concur with everything u said. Roll in Jan 2nd for me too. A catastrophic event ended my relationship with family too, tho it was always tenuous, them in bully sh mood when they felt like it, me ducking their shots, complying, passively. Mine was over a brother's Will..they refused give me my share, then told lies about me stealing from that brother..all totally untrue.